Having said that I can say with the utmost sincerity that sleep is something that I am sure will happen again. I have tentatively scheduled it for around Summer of 2015. We are officially outnumbered now!
Declan turned 4 this summer and started school at the beginning of September. So far he has taken the changes very well. He enjoys his teacher and seems to be excited every morning when he is told it is a school day. He only goes two days a week currently and then a third day every 2 weeks. It is kind of confusing and has created a bit of stress in making sure that everyone is where they need to be on the correct day.
With Rhys still in daycare there is some continuity for Declan as well because he can go into the daycare when Rhys is dropped off. Speaking of Rhys, he amazes me. He is so big now and has such a sweet heart. He truly enjoys snuggling and hugging and has a smile that lights up the room. He is thriving in Daycare and I am very happy with how he is developing. We are in the process of trying to potty train which is a bit difficult with all the adjustments that have been made in his life but he is slowly getting it.
I can't believe how big our boys are getting! They are little men in truth.
I cannot say enough about how much I feel daycare provided Declan with the tools required to transition into JK. His conversational English is terrific and his ability to adapt to new situations has certainly benefited. I would strongly encourage anyone who is on the fence about daycare to seriously consider it.
One of the things that I have been able to take advantage of over the last month is the sabbatical that my company offers. After 5 years of employment we are entitled to a month off fully paid. It is supposed to used as a enriching opportunity and I have used it as an opportunity to provide as much support as I can to Andrea during the last month. Between the arrival of Leighton and Declan beginning JK it has been wonderful being at home. I have been able to see first hand how quickly the day goes by. I am awake by 5 or 6:00am and the next thing I know it is the afternoon and almost time to pick up the boys.
Going back to work will be hard because it will be another adjustment for everyone. It look as though will take off next August for Parental Leave as well which should be nice.
I cannot say enough about the strength that I see daily in Andrea. She has the patience of a rock with all of her boys, myself included, and is doing it all while being so tired that I am unsure how she functions. The crazy part is she really doesn't think that she is doing anything remarkable! I am so proud of her. She is an amazing Mother and wonderful Wife.
All in all things are going very well.